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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 23:46

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What's the most valuable lesson you've learned in life, and how has it impacted your journey so far?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What are some prime examples of gibberish from the bible?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How would you advertise if you wanted to be a "tour guide" who can take you through the dark web while warning you what not to look at and not to click on?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What advice would you give to a father of a teenage daughter on how to protect her from boys, dating, and social media? How should fathers discuss these topics with their daughters?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why is (n-1)(n+1)=n^2-1?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.